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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

在我们的一生中会遇到 你最爱的人, 最爱你的人, 还有个就是是共度一生的人.

在我们的一生中会遇到 
你最爱的人, 
最爱你的人, 
还有个就是是共度一生的人. 
首先会遇到你最爱的人,然後体会到爱的感觉; 
因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现最爱你的人; 
当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,才会知道什么是你需要的, 
也才会找到最适合你,能够相处一辈子的人。 
但很悲哀的,在现实生活中,这三个人通常不是同一个人; 
你最爱的,往往没有选择你; 
最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的; 
而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的, 
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。 
你,会是别人生命中的第几个人呢? 
没有人是故意要变心的,他爱你的时候是真的爱你, 
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了, 
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你; 
同样的,他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。 
当一个人不爱你要离开你, 
你要问自己还爱不爱他, 
如果你也不爱他了,千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开; 
如果你还爱他,你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐, 
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起,绝不会阻止, 
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已经不爱他了, 
而如果你不爱他,你又有什么资格指责他变心呢? 
爱不是占有, 
你喜欢月亮,不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里, 
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。 
换句话说,你爱一个人,也可以用另一种方式拥有, 
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆, 
如果你真爱一个人,就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好,也爱他的坏: 
爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点, 
绝不能因为爱他,就希望他变成自己所希望的样子, 
万一变不成就不爱他了。 

真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的, 
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏,你都希望这个人陪著你; 
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守,也就是没有丝毫要求。 
毕竟,感情必须付出,而不是只想获得; 
分开是一种必然的考验, 
如果你们感情不够稳固,只好认输, 
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。 
两人在谈情说爱的时候, 
最喜欢叫对方发誓,许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓, 
就是因为我们不相信对方,我们根本不相信情人, 
而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际: 
海枯石烂、地老天荒,都不能改变我对你的爱! 
明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒; 
就算会,也活不到那时候。 

许下诺言的时候千万注意,不要许下可以实现的诺言, 
最好是承诺做不到的事, 
反正做不到的,随便说说也不要紧, 
请记住:” 不可能实现的诺言最动人” 
在爱情里,说的是一套,做的是另一套; 
讲的人 不 相信,听的人也不相信。 
所以到底 是要选 择哪个要相信缘分,一切顺其自然 
真正的爱情并不一定是他人眼中的完美匹配 
而是相爱的人彼此心灵的相互契合 
是为了让对方生活得更好而默默奉献 
这份爱不仅温润着他们自己,也同样温润着那些世俗的心 
真正的爱情,是在能爱的时候,懂得珍惜 
真正的爱情,是在无法爱的时候,懂得放手 
因为,放手才是拥有了一切… 
请在珍惜的时候,好好去爱 
在放手的时候,好好祝福…
真爱是一种从内心发出的关心和照顾,没有华丽的言语,没有哗众取宠的行动...
只有在点点滴滴一言一行中你能感受得到。 
那样平实那样坚定。
反之发誓、许诺说明了它的不确定,永远不要相信甜蜜的话语。
用心去感受吧。
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Saturday, February 19, 2011

我看起来很好

我看起来很好。
一切安然无恙。

我在听音乐,
调子的节奏好像还很轻快。
谁人知晓,
其实,
我快覆没了。

嘴里要说的话既咽不下去,
又吐不出来。

心里头有堆积如山的为什么,
在内心深处,我经常觉得自己会窒息或者死去。

我尝试着,
再回味一下众乐乐,
那无限的快感,
那种种的喜悦,
所有的快乐,
都离我好远好远,
消失得无影无踪。

瞬间,
我变得很空虚。

围绕着我的,
尽是迷惘和恐惧。

泪水涌出,
但是,
并不是喜极而泣,
而是
伤心难过。

忙碌奔波型并不快乐,做享乐主义型也不开心。

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Valentine Day 2011 02 14

Dear,Do u know wat i had been done today?
Those three things that i had been done today,
Actualy,
They were " miss you, miss you, and miss you."

Dear ... 
Do you ever know the meaning of  831?
831 means your date of birth...
831 means 'I Love You' too... < 8 letters3 words1 meaning > 

Love is like swallowing hot chocolate before it has cooled off.
It takes us by surprise at first, but it keeps us warm for a long time.
Fom the moment we met, many years ago,
We both knew in our hearts that we were meant for each other ...
Our love is true and will last forever...

Life isn't always a fairy tale, but with you, I'm bound to have a happy ending!
I am a rose; you are my thorns, clutching and protecting me forever and ever! 

Even though we were far apart from each other,
But...
Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there.
Memory is a golden chain that binds us together until we meet again.
I treasure the tears, the laughter, but most importantly, the memories  among us...

Each night I am counting the days until we'll be together; someday it will be just that, we will be one for eternity."

The more i know you,
The more i love you,
I love you in the morning, in the middle of the day, in the hours we are together, and the hours we are away...

I realy do love you dearly with all my heart, dear...

Tonight when you look up at the stars, try and count them all.I miss you that much.
When you go to the beach, try to count every grain of sand.I trust you that much. 
When you go in the water, try and count each drop of water in the ocean.I need you that much.
When your heart beats, try and count each and every beat for a day. I love you that much, dear.

I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.
Anyway, I know that I don't have to go far while I miss you,dear...
I know I just have to look inside my heart because that's where I'll find you.

Dear,
I just close my eyes because I might see your face.
I just close my mouth because I might hear your voice.
I just close my ears because I might hear of you.
But,I could not close my heart because I love you.

By hearing your voice is the closest thing to touching you...

I love you more than any word I can say ...
I love you more than every action I take ...
I'll be right here loving you till the end...

Time will prove my love to you and cement my place in your heart forever,
 For time will give me the credibility and the believability,
That I need to convince you to want to spend the rest of your life with me,
That I am worthy of such a commitment from you.

Forever and always I am keeping you.
Never ever could I be as happy as I am knowing that our hearts beat to the rhythm of love.

"A ring is round, it turns forever and that's how long we'll be together!

Our love shall never fade away, but shall always stay forever and ever and ever.

Just before I turn in for the night, I want to let you know that my heart stays with you tight, so that my warmth will make you feel that everything's going to be right. 


Happy Valentines... 2011 !!!


Lovely, Fanny...
<Te quiero mas que el amor - I love you more than love>

Sunday, February 6, 2011